Thursday, November 10, 2011

9 Signs You're Not Ready for Marriage

Engagements
The best way to deal with a broken marriage is to communicate effectively it because once a marriage is broken it is very difficult to restore. Since prevention is better than a cure, it's important that we recognize how to identify if we’re ready for marriage in the first place. Here are 9 signs that you are not ready for marriage.

aren't having the best year. Last week Vivica Fox called off her engagement and it's rumored that Jennifer Hudson and David Otunga could be headed for splitsville. Basketball Wives stars Gloria Govan and Matt Barnes even ended their lengthy engagement for a second time last month.

The truth is, marriage may not work for everyone and sometimes the time just isn't right. For many, this is a difficult statement to accept, however, when we don’t acknowledge the truth and blindly enter matrimony, the effects can come back to bite all of us (in some cases a broken marriage = broken children = broken community). I’m convinced that a significant reason for the looming divorce rate (of approximately 48%) is due to one simple reason; many of us marry when we’re not ready.